Dating refers to an arrangement of meeting between persons of two opposite sexes in order to make friends, find compatibility amongst them with a view to have long term relationship, marriage etc. Jewish Dating refers to the dating which is limited and guided by the norms and traditions of the Jewish culture. Jewish people are very closely knit and they have different customs and traditions, as a result they try to find a mate belonging to the same culture. They believe that when a couple shares same interests and culture and follows same tradition they are bound to have a better relationship.
In the past history, there were no dating services. In the past, old women in the Jewish society used to practice as match makers. They used to pair up young Jewish singles and make their match so that they could be tied up in nuptial knot and can lead a happy family life. Jewish youngsters, bound by traditions and fear of society were not that free in those days so as to find their match on their own. These ladies were matchmakers and used to enjoy great respect from the society for their work.
Nowadays there are a large number of dating services which provides services to Jewish clients. These Jewish dating services work hard to find a most suitable match for their client. They offer services for checking the background of an individual, matching their interests, likes and dislikes habits etc. and then offer a match for them.
They keep profiles of their clients and prospective matches in folders and also keep video presentations etc. to present a more clear view to their clients. Some Jewish dating services also arrange prayer meeting for Jewish singles where they can meet, exchange words and find a compatible match for themselves.
As a matter of fact, Jewish population is very limited around the globe and as such Jewish Dating services have to work hard to find a compatible match for their clients within their community. There has been an increase in online Jewish dating services on the internet, which offers services for matching Jewish singles and these have been quite successful. As these online services have no boundaries, they can find match from any where in world. These online dating services have found tremendous popularity amongst Jewish singles as they have been struggling to find a suitable match for themselves within their community in the limitations their area and boundary.
With the help of internet dating, they have been able to cross these boundaries and meet Jewish singles across the world and it has helped them to find a suitable love for themselves. Another reason which has helped in the growth of Jewish dating services is the nature of Jewish single that tends to find a match in the Jewish community itself. Even if they are not very religious in nature, when the question of choosing a spouse arises, they prefer to choose it from the same community and caste. They believe that if the spouse is from same community then the marriage will be more successful.
Few leading Jewish dating websites which are running quite successfully and are offering their services to Jewish singles in finding their compatible match from the same community are singlejew.com, jcafe.com, jewishdating.co.uk, ajewishdatingsite.com etc. All these sites offer extensive services in the field of dating amongst Jewish community by matching their profiles, arranging meetings between them and allowing them to select their life partner after judging their compatibility with each other. These websites have loads of profiles of both Jewish men and women who are single and looking for their life partner. They offer pictures and videos of the prospective matches and also offer relationship advice to its members. They offer an area wise search for profiles of your choice ad also offers dating tips and advices to its members so that they make the most out of their date.
Unlike common dating services, Jewish dating services are guided by the traditions of the Jewish society and hence they do not encourage dating for casual relations. Jewish dating has a set objective of finding matches for a long term relationship which will convert into marriage. As the Jewish dating candidates are supposed to have a clear purpose in their mind, they are advised to follow certain guidelines and tips of dating which will help hem make their date a successful one and avoid any mistakes. These suggestions and tips for Jewish singles are discussed hereunder.
- Before going on a date it is desired that you must gain all knowledge about your date regarding their background and whereabouts.
After meeting on a first date, if you do not find something very wrong in your date, always give a second chance to them.
- On first date, due to the stress and anxiety one may speak or behave in a way which is not their usual nature and thus a first date should not be considered as the conclusive date and a second chance must be given.
- One must also keep a positive attitude when going on a date and should try to make your date most comfortable.
- On a date, one should ask all purposeful things to the prospective match and must get a clear idea about each other’s values and lifestyle so as to judge whether they can make a perfect match.
- Although it is advisable that no decision should be taken in haste, but if one finds and is sure that they are not suitable for each other they must let the opponent know the same. It is not desirable to leave the opponent in a wandering position and allow any emotional feelings to arise.
The very purpose of Jewish dating will be defeated if one is not positive and clear in his approach and plays with other’s feelings. As Jewish dating does not encourage casual relationships and relationships for fun, one must severe their links if they feel that they cannot make a perfect match.
Overall, Jewish dating services have been very helpful and instrumental in matching suitable Jewish singles so that they can lead a happy married life.